Our programs in marriage preparation emphasize five keys.
Develop Good Communication
Good communication involves listening without defensiveness. We tend to get defensive when we feel attacked or judged. Our defensiveness cuts off our response to the content of our partner’s message and leads to frustration and anger.
By listening for the feelings behind the words, we are able to respond in a way that leads to greater sharing. Is your partner sad, angry, or fearful? Many conversations get off track because a person’s feelings were not appreciated and responded to.
Know Each Others’ Inner World
What are your partner’s hopes and dreams? What is his/her greatest desire? What is his/her greatest fear?
Knowing what gives meaning to your partner’s life can help you be a true companion. As you plan your future together-and respond to the opportunities and frustrations of life-these hopes and dreams serve as a compass to direct your path.
Make Room for One Another
Just as you make room in your new home for each other’s belongings, so it is important to create room in your life for your partner.
Does your partner have a voice in decisions? Is there enough time devoted to being with one another? Do your partner’s feelings influence the actions you take?
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"Thank you very much! This was a great partnership-building opportunity. I’m excited about the commitment!"
|Number of Sessions||Fees|
|Marriage 101||4||$130/hour or $400 in advance
|Marriage 102||12||$130/hour or $1,200 in advance
|Marriage 101 & 102||16 (4 pre-marital + monthly sessions for one year)||$130/hour or $1,600 in advance